We often look for ways that people are different from us. We use that as a means of connection. For example, “We both don’t like the way he wears his pants. We are now friends.” By connecting over what separates us versus connecting over what makes us share the same experience. We are actually negating the bigger picture of what makes us us. While the fabric below has differences that make them unique, there is something that ties them all together. Who in your life can you connect with over what you share?